Every time I share this story of Sa Mei and myself meeting in 2007, and coincidentally reuniting in 2017 I’m amazed and inspired by the power of photography to connect. Sa Mei is a member of the Red Dao hill tribe and lives in a small village about a days walk outside of Sapa, Northern Vietnam. We had met her in 2007 on the trail, and I was taken by her warm smile and welcoming face, asking her to pose for a photograph. We only had about 30 minutes to connect, and limited English to communicate initially but she made an impact on me and I saved her photo on my phone.
Photo of myself with Sa Mei in 2017, holding photo I took in 2007 saved on my iPhone
In 2017, we were back in the same area leading a small group of photographers on a tour when we happened to run into Sa Mae on the trail. As you can see from the two photographs, she looks nearly identical, but I wasn’t sure it was her until I pulled up her portrait on my phone to compare. When I approached her and shared this portrait she was of course surprised and I’m sure uncertain of who I was, then nearly began to cry as she examined the photograph and we began to share memories of this encounter.
Portrait of Sa Mei in 2007 & 2017, a Red Dao hill tribe women near Sapa, Vietnam
Sa Mei and I shared stories of our lives the past decade (she has become more fluent in English with the influx of tourism & in fact speaks 4 languages), and we discovered that we were the same age though have led very different lives. As she walked along the trail with our group I learned she is a grandmother and has a small farm where she lives with her husband and her son and daughter in law and grandchildren. When she invited our group to join her family for lunch we happily changed our schedule and met her the next day at the trailhead.
Sa Mei walking on trial to her village Giang ta chai of the Red Dao hill tribe people outside of Sapa, Northern hill tribe areas, Vietnam
Sa Mei and her daughter in law guided us along the paths to her village, about an hour walk outside the main tourism trekking areas to a delightful village we would have never discovered on our own.
Sa Mei holding my hand as she leads me on trail to her village Giang ta chai of the Red Dao hill tribe people
When we arrived we were greeted with a bountiful welcome – the family had gathered the equivalent of a thanksgiving feast including fresh vegetables and poultry from their farm and a freshly slaughtered pig all being cooked by the family on open fire in the middle of their house.
Man May Lo cooking lunch for our group inside her home
The whole family joined our group the feast, and much rice wine was shared in a jovial lunch that extended well into the afternoon. We had the chance to connect more deeply through enjoying and capturing the process of cooking our lunch, and shared an intimate glimpse into their lives.
Sa Mei with her husband inside her daugher in law’s house
Sa Mei and her husband at Sa Mei walking on trial to her village Giang ta chai of the Red Dao hill tribe people outside of Sapa, Northern hill tribe areas, Vietnam
We still stay in touch through facebook – Sa Mei’s daughter in law will call to chat through facebook and share photos, and our group created a custom photobook of our experience and shipped to our guide in Vietnam to share with the family the next time he was able to return to their village.
Food has continued to be a connector to more intimate encounters in my travels, and in fact was the common factor for my most memorable moments in Vietnam. Here’s a few more highlights from our Northern Vietnam tour.
Local Markets:
Vietnamese woman cooking whole duck, Thuan Chau market, SON LA-DIEN BIEN PROVINCE , Northern Vietnam
Breakfast at BAC HA market, HA GIANG, Northern Vietnam
Making egg coffee, Hanoi, Vietnam
Andrea sampling the local delicacy, crispy fried grasshoppers